Dear Butterfly, " Magandang gabi". Why? 12 Midnight curfew? Is it always "Oras na para matulog"?"Kami ang pamilya mo"! He might not. Who knows? It's always been funny in the last few years is when we all go out, when the clock strikes 12, its like that Disney character, Cinderella. Poof! Disappears. Where to? In car. Why? "Saying, I am in bed baby. I wish you were here with me, on this bed. Holding me. I miss you. I love you so much. Come back soon IROG. Please... I am so lonely here in bed. I got nothing to do"
YEAH! Then when all of that is over, PARTEH!
Hehe. It's like Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men in 1992...
“The truth? You can’t handle the truth.”
Luckily it was just SMS instead of call and the actual message was just "I'm already at home (not!). Nite-nite, Mahal na mahal kita.."
ReplyDeleteFor a practical person, U are sooo dramatic, Papa Bear..
Eh, if I don't write like a tabloid, WHOla would come read this blog. Hehe.
ReplyDeletePlease lah, it sounded so desperate!! I have moved on long since the "I am not well" time..
ReplyDeleteEver since then, All my pride is all I have..
though I do sometimes (ok, most of the time) have to attend to my bf's emotional needs..
ReplyDelete:-P
ReplyDeleteAla papa bear...all human have their weakness, im sure you have it 2....if by lying can save someone then why not
ReplyDeleteYes. It's true. I never said its WRONG. I just report it how tabloids do it. Just wrongly quote, sensationalise and sometimes lie to get the best reaction to stories. Hehe.
ReplyDeletelol... Papa Bear u nailed the Tabloid part...
ReplyDeleteU wanted us to react by writting it.. so you got our reactions....
I am now curious.. who is the anonymous person? Someone we know?
anonymous is papa bear perhaps...do we have a cyber-stalker on this blog???
ReplyDeleteYes.. agreed and endorsed.... You are superwoman!!!
ReplyDeleteI have no idea.. thats y im curious... Who might that person be?
I have a question here...
ReplyDeleteSO are we agreeing that its ok to LIE ?
Where and how do you draw the line when u LIE?
A LIE is still a LIE be it white, green, blue or black....
Whats ur point of view? care to enlighten me?
My point is that U have to do what U need in the relationship – for me is that I have to attend to his insecurities and emotional needs. I HATE having to lie, but there is no point for me to argue my way across to make him understand that its ok. At the end of it, I do what I want and don’t cross my boundaries.
ReplyDeleteWell,
ReplyDeleteI think most people cant do what u do... and i think thats the sacrifices that one need to make... hence give and take...
u dont have to explain gal, friends dont need it and enemies will never understand...
do you consider yourself lying? I dont think so.. ur merely telling him what he wants to know!!!! ( taking into consideration his take and feelings ).
It's called a white lie - and very justifiable in these sorts of circumstances as long as what you are doing is not wrong and is just meant to keep him feeling secure. No need to defend. I think KWSP is in violent agreement. :)
ReplyDeleteMy post is not meant as a justification, the least not for here. A lie is still a lie, it would still hurt if found out the truth, no matter if its just a white lie.
ReplyDeleteAll well ends well....
ReplyDeleteIf you dont throw the dice, u'll never get a six!
You are who you are...